Make up in your mind that you will not hold on to a relationship that has been dead in the water long ago.
Make up in your mind that you will finally let go of that thing or that person who has been holding you back.
No individual or relationship is worth it if it requires you to sacrifice your self respect, dignity and self worth.
If you put all your eggs in another person’s basket they will crack if that person disapoints you, leaves you or dies. Why? Because you will not have anything left inside of you with which to carry on and keep going. If you want to give yourself completely and unconditionally to someone, let that someone be God. Otherwise let go. You may better off without that individual. You may be better off without the pain, the misery and hurt.
Remember, as I have said in previous posts, Do not hesitate to sacrifice what you are now for what you can become.